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A Message and Prayer for the Worn and Weary

Many of the wives in our counseling and coaching practice are tired, hurt, worn, perhaps numb and near hopeless.  They wonder if there is life in their relationship and if there can be life in them again.  The dream they had on their marriage day is far from that and while achieving that dream is forever unlikely there is still a wonder if anything can be salvaged.  Living in a grey world that consists of existing instead of living (abundant life) isn't what they had in mind.   With that in mind... Genesis 1:1 In the beginning God made the heavens and the earth.  Now the earth was formless and empty, darkness was over the face of the deep, and the Spirit of God hovered over the waters. (NIV) We'll follow the paradigm laid out in creation: You are made.  God created you uniquely and wonderfully (Psalm 139).  He has a plan for you (Jeremiah 29:11).  He has come to give you life abundant (John 10:10). You may feel formless.  Where do I fit ...

What's Happened in 2 Years?

 My last post was over 2 years ago.  I mentioned in that short post that I was moving into coaching on two fronts: Career and Asperger's/ASD. Since then, my wife and I have formed a company called "International Association of Neurodiverse Christian Marriage" (https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/).  The goal is to provide educational materials to professionals, counselors, ministers, coaches and chaplains about the differences that Neurodiverse couples encounter compared to their neurotypical counterparts.  The content is available through an online portal.  We are also producing a weekly podcast.  You can find all of that material on the website. Additionally, we have started using a combined counseling and coaching approach to the Neurodiverse relationship.  This provides all the benefits of both disciplines and helps the parties individually and collectively stay on target for their goals.  You can learn more about that at https://www...

Launching: Life Coaching

After 25+ Years of Adult Life... Experience is life's best teacher.  It is also quicker to advance in yourself and your goals by learning from someone else than by regularly learning from your own mistakes. I have been 'coaching' in my professional life for many years.  With that as a background, I am going to open that to anyone in a technical career looking to accomplish their goals and would like help in getting there. In addition to that, the other niche that I have experience with is in helping those, especially men, with Asperger's grow in life and make their Asperger's work for them instead of against them. There is a lot more to come and more blogs to come.  If you are interested, let me know.